Nothing can match the treasure of common memories, of trials endured together, of quarrels and reconciliations and generous emotions. It is idle, having planted an acorn in the morning, to expect that afternoon to sit in the shade of the oak.
Interpretation
Shared experiences build deep connections over time.
The quote emphasizes the value of shared experiences and memories in relationships, suggesting that enduring trials and resolving conflicts together strengthen the bonds between people. It also reflects on the idea that meaningful growth, much like a tree from an acorn, takes time and cannot be rushed; maturity and depth in relationships develop gradually through shared moments and challenges.
In practice
During a wedding speech, one could use this quote to highlight the journey a couple has shared.
Grown-ups love figures... When you tell them you've made a new friend they never ask you any questions about essential matters. They never say to you "What does his voice sound like? What games does he love best? Does he collect butterflies? " Instead they demand "How old is he? How much does he weigh? How much money does his father make? " Only from these figures do they think they have learned anything about him.
Attitude is a paintbrush. It colors everything!
Water, thou hast no taste, no color, no odor; canst not be defined, art relished while ever mysterious. Not necessary to life, but rather life itself, thou fillest us with a gratification that exceeds the delight of the senses.
In those days, I didn't understand anything. I should have judged her according to her actions, not her words. She perfumed my planet and lit up my life. I should never have run away! I ought to have realized the tenderness underlying her silly pretensions. Flowers are so contadictory! But I was too young to know how to love her.
When a mystery is too overpowering, one dare not disobey.
When the body sinks into death, the essence of man is revealed. Man is a knot, a web, a mesh into which relationships are tied. Only those relationships matter. The body is an old crock that nobody will miss. I have never known a man to think of himself when dying. Never.
A second wife is hateful to the children of the first; A viper is not more hateful.
The confusing of marriage with morality has done more to destroy the conscience of the human race than any other single error.
Perhaps it is indeed time I began to look at this whole matter of bantering more enthusiastically. After all, when one thinks about it, it is not such a foolish thing to indulge in - particularly if it is the case that in bantering lies the key to human warmth.
I was young I was so young it hurt like a knife inside because there was no alternative except to hide as long as possible--- not in self-pity but with dismay at my limited chance: trying to connect.
No matter how beautiful a woman might be, you're always threatened by certain... You're always threatened by other women, period.
Harsh words live in the dungeon of the heart
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