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She had grown older. And he loved her more now than he had loved her when he understood her better, when she was the product of her parents. What she was now was what she herself had decided to become.
Michael Ondaatje
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote highlights the deepening love that comes with understanding and personal growth over time.

In this quote, Michael Ondaatje reflects on how love can evolve as a person matures and becomes more authentic. He emphasizes that true love transcends the initial understanding of someone's background and instead flourishes as one appreciates their journey and choices, embracing their individuality and the person they have grown into.

Themes

LoveGrowthUnderstandingIndividualityMaturity

In practice

Example use cases

In a wedding speech to convey the beauty of long-lasting love.

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