Before I was ever a poet, my father was writing poems about me, so it was a turning of the tables when I became a poet and started answering, speaking back to his poems in ways that I had not before.
Natasha TretheweyRead
My parents had to go to Ohio to get married in 1965 because it was still illegal in Mississippi. My white father and black mother.
Interpretation
The quote reflects on the barriers faced by interracial couples due to societal laws and prejudices of the time.
Natasha Trethewey's quote recounts the historical injustice of interracial marriage in the United States, highlighting how her parents had to travel to Ohio to marry in 1965 because Mississippi still had laws prohibiting such unions. This personal narrative underscores the struggles and sacrifices faced by interracial couples, illustrating the broader social and legal challenges that were present during that era.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a discussion about the history of marriage equality.
Before I was ever a poet, my father was writing poems about me, so it was a turning of the tables when I became a poet and started answering, speaking back to his poems in ways that I had not before.
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