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People consider the harms they inflict to be justified and forgettable, and the harms they suffer to be unprovoked and grievous.
Steven Pinker
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Interpretation

What this quote means

People often rationalize their own harmful actions while perceiving the harm done to them as unjustified.

This quote by Steven Pinker suggests that individuals have a tendency to justify the negative actions they take against others while viewing the negative actions taken against them as entirely unjust and severe. This duality in perspective highlights a common cognitive bias, where one's own shortcomings are minimized while the grievances faced are amplified, potentially leading to a skewed understanding of morality and fairness in human interactions.

Themes

JustificationHarmPerspectiveCognitive BiasMorality

In practice

Example use cases

During a discussion about ethics in a philosophy class.

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