Eating is always a decision, nobody forces your hand to pick up food and put it into your mouth.
Albert EllisRead
Most people would have given up when faced with all the criticism I've received over the years.
Interpretation
This quote highlights the importance of perseverance in the face of criticism and adversity.
Albert Ellis emphasizes that while many individuals might succumb to the negative opinions and criticisms they encounter, resilience and the ability to continue striving for one's goals is essential. This perspective encourages individuals to view criticism not as a reason to give up, but as a challenge to overcome.
In practice
In a motivational speech about overcoming obstacles.
Eating is always a decision, nobody forces your hand to pick up food and put it into your mouth.
Religious creeds encourage some of the craziest kinds of thoughts, emotions, and behaviors and favor severe manifestations of neurosis, borderline personality states, and sometimes even psychosis.
I had used eclectic therapy and behavior therapy on myself at the age of 19 to get over my fear of public speaking and of approaching young women in public.
If you would stop, really stop, damning yourself, others, and unkind conditions, you would find it almost impossible to upset yourself emotionally - about anything. Yes, anything.
The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
Attempts to help humans eliminate all self-ratings and views self-esteem as a self-defeating concept that encourages them to make conditional evaluations of self. Instead, it teaches people unconditional self-acceptance.
For the first time I heard shots fired in anger, heard bullets strike flesh or whistle through the air.
I open a paperclip and scratch it across the inside of my left wrist. Pitiful. If a suicide attempt is a cry for help, then what is this. A whimper, a peep? I draw little window cracks of blood, etching line after line until it stops hurting.
No soldier outlives a thousand chances.
Battling racism and battling heterosexism and battling apartheid share the same urgency inside me as battling cancer.
In some sense, when you take a child soldier out of an armed group, you've taken away the identity he or she has had for years, and you can't assume life is just going to return to normal.
I'm afraid to walk in public, because people look at me. But I'm not going to stop. I'm afraid because if I want to commune with my friend Shad (Meier), I have to ask him to cut my chicken for me. But I did it. And I'm afraid to go back and see my teammates and coaches because I know that I'll feel envy. But I'm going to do it anyway. Because fear is just a feeling, and if you can acknowledge that fear, digest that fear and overcome it, the rewards are incredible.
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