Etiquette requires the presumption of good until the contrary is proved.
Emily PostRead
In popular houses where visitors like to go again and again, there is always a happy combination of some attention on the part of the hostess and the perfect freedom of the guests to occupy their time as they choose.
Interpretation
What this quote means
A welcoming home balances hospitality with guest freedom.
This quote by Emily Post emphasizes the importance of creating a warm and inviting atmosphere in one's home that encourages visitors to return. It suggests that a successful gathering involves a harmonious interaction where the hostess provides attentive care while allowing guests the liberty to engage in their own activities, fostering a relaxed and enjoyable environment.
Themes
HospitalityAttentionFreedomGuestsHome
In practice
Example use cases
Use this quote during a speech about hosting successful gatherings.
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