Eating is always a decision, nobody forces your hand to pick up food and put it into your mouth.
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Self-esteem is the greatest sickness known to man or woman because it's conditional.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Self-esteem based on conditions can lead to unhappiness and instability.
In this quote, Albert Ellis argues that self-esteem, when contingent upon external factors or conditions, becomes a detrimental force in a person's life. It suggests that individuals may feel inadequate or unworthy when these conditions are not met, leading to emotional and psychological suffering. Emphasizing unconditional self-acceptance might lead to a healthier sense of self-worth.
Themes
Self-EsteemConditionalSicknessWorthAcceptance
In practice
Example use cases
During a seminar on personal growth, you could quote Ellis to emphasize the importance of unconditional self-acceptance.
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The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
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