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Thus we never see the true state of our condition till it is illustrated to us by its contraries, nor know how to value what we enjoy, but by the want of it.
Daniel Defoe
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What this quote means

We often appreciate what we have only when we experience its absence.

This quote by Daniel Defoe suggests that human beings are often blind to the value of their current situation until they are contrasted with its opposite. In essence, it implies that the true understanding of happiness and satisfaction can only be gleaned from experiencing lack or adversity, making people appreciate their circumstances more fully when they are reminded of what life would be like without them.

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AppreciationContrastValueAbsenceLifeUnderstanding

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Example use cases

During a motivational speech about gratitude, this quote can remind the audience to appreciate what they have.

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