Once you understand non-self, then the burden of life is gone. You'll be at peace with the world. When we see beyond self, we no longer cling to happiness and we can truly be happy. Learn to let go without struggle, simply let go, to be just as you are - no holding on, no attachment, free.
There are two kinds of suffering. There is the suffering you run away from, which follows you everywhere. And there is the suffering you face directly, and so become free.
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What this quote means
Suffering can either be avoided or confronted, and confronting it leads to freedom.
In this quote, Ajahn Chah highlights the dual nature of suffering. The first kind is the suffering that individuals try to escape from, which often results in a continuous, haunting presence in their lives. The second kind is the suffering that one chooses to face directly, which may be painful in the moment but ultimately leads to liberation and a deeper understanding of oneself. By embracing our suffering, we can transcend it and find true freedom.
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Example use cases
In a motivational speech about resilience, one might say, 'Remember, there are two kinds of suffering β embrace your struggles for true freedom.'
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Meditation is like a single log of wood. Insight and investigation are one end of the log; calm and concentration are the other end. If you lift up the whole log, both sides come up at once. Which is concentration and which is insight? Just this mind.
The heart is just the heart; thoughts and feelings are just thoughts and feelings. Let things be just as they are.
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