If people start to buy the idea that machines are great companions for the elderly or for children, as they increasingly seem to do, we are really playing with fire.
Sherry TurkleRead
It’s a way of life to be always texting and when you looks at these texts it really is thoughts in formation. I do studies where I just sit for hours and hours at red lights watching people unable to tolerate being alone. Its as though being along has become a problem that needs to be solved and then technology presents itself as a solution to this problem…Being alone is not a problem that needs to be solved. The capacity for solitude is a very important human skill.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of solitude and the danger of relying on technology to fill the void of being alone.
Sherry Turkle argues that in modern society, the ability to be alone is undervalued and often seen as a problem that needs to be addressed through technology, such as constant texting and connectivity. She observes that many people struggle with solitude and that this reliance on technology prevents individuals from developing the essential human skill of being comfortable with their own company. The quote invites reflection on the significance of solitude in fostering personal growth and understanding.
Themes
SolitudeTechnologySelf-ReflectionHuman SkillConnection
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about digital addiction, you might reference this quote to highlight the need for moments of solitude.
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