I'm trying to broaden the scope of positive psychology well beyond the smiley face. Happiness is just one-fifth of what human beings choose to do.
Martin SeligmanRead
It used to be that whenever I introduced myself to people and told them I was a psychologist, they would shrink away from me. Because, quite rightly, the impression the American public has of psychologists is, 'You want to know what's wrong with me.'
Interpretation
Psychologists often face stigma as people fear being judged or exposed.
Martin Seligman highlights the stigma associated with psychology, emphasizing that when he revealed his profession, people often recoiled due to their perception that psychologists are primarily interested in uncovering personal flaws or issues. This reflects a broader societal misconception about mental health professionals and the essential roles they play in promoting well-being rather than merely diagnosing problems.
In practice
In a talk on mental health awareness, one might say, 'As Martin Seligman pointed out, the stigma around psychology often leads to misunderstandings about its true purpose.'
I'm trying to broaden the scope of positive psychology well beyond the smiley face. Happiness is just one-fifth of what human beings choose to do.
One of my worries about America is the epidemic of depression we've been in. One of the possibilities about that is that the 'I' gets bigger and bigger, and the 'we' gets smaller and smaller.
The dirty little secret of both clinical psychology and biological psychiatry is that they have completely given up on the notion of cure.
The belief that we can rely on shortcuts to happiness, joy, rapture, comfort, and ecstasy, rather than be entitled to these feelings by the exercise of personal strengths and virtues, leads to legions of people who, in the middle of great wealth, are starving spiritually.
I believe psychology has done very well in working out how to understand and treat disease. But I think that is literally half-baked. If all you do is work to fix problems, to alleviate suffering, then by definition you are working to get people to zero, to neutral.
The good life is using your signature strengths every day to produce authentic happiness and abundant gratification.
The conflict between the will to deny horrible events and the will to proclaim them aloud is the central dialectic of psychological trauma.
Wherever an inferiority complex exists, there is a good reason for it.
The fact is that people are good, Give people affection and security, and they will give affection and be secure in their feelings and their behavior.
The aim of psychoanalysis is to relieve people of their neurotic unhappiness so that they can be normally unhappy.
Everybody, to some extent, manipulates. Even children learn to cry when they want something. There are all kinds of subtle things we do to get others to follow our lead, not bother us, and so on.
People's behavior makes sense if you think about it in terms of their goals, needs, and motives.
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