Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
Brene BrownRead
We use work to numb out. We can't turn off our machines because we're afraid we're going to miss something.
Interpretation
This quote reflects on how people often use work as a distraction from deeper feelings and fears of missing out.
Brene Brown points out a contemporary issue where individuals immerse themselves in work as a coping mechanism to avoid dealing with their emotions and anxieties. The fear of missing out prompts us to stay connected and engaged, leading to a relentless cycle of busyness instead of allowing ourselves time for reflection and rest.
In practice
In a presentation about work-life balance, you might quote this to emphasize the importance of taking breaks.
Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
I think our capacity for wholeheartedness can never be greater than our willingness to be broken-hearted. It means engaging with the world from a place of vulnerability and worthiness.
Men walk this tightrope where any sign of weakness illicits shame, and so they're afraid to make themselves vulnerable for fear of looking weak.
I hesitate to use a pathologizing label, but underneath the so-called narcissistic personality is definitely shame and the paralyzing fear of being ordinary.
I'm not a parenting expert. In fact, I'm not sure that I even believe in the idea of 'parenting experts.' I'm an engaged, imperfect parent and a passionate researcher. I'm an experienced mapmaker and a stumbling traveler. Like many of you, parenting is by far my boldest and most daring adventure.
I've learned that men and women who are living wholehearted lives really allow themselves to soften into joy and happiness. They allow themselves to experience it.
We all have this place in us, a place of strength, harmony and wisdom, but most of the time we don't live there How can we course-correct faster? How can we encourage each other to live in that place more?
Either you're growing or you're decaying; there's no middle ground. If you're standing still, you're decaying.
There's a popular image of people who don't save for the future as lacking in self-control. But the reason saving is so hard has less to do with self-control and more to do with a scarcity of attention.
If you read enough biography and history, you learn how people have dealt successfully or unsuccessfully with similar situations or patterns in the past. It doesn't give you a template of answers, but it does help you refine the questions you have to ask yourself.
Buy land. They ain't making any more of the stuff.
He whose genius appears deepest and truest excels his fellows in nothing save the knack of expression; he throws out occasionally a lucky hint at truths of which every human soul is profoundly though unutterably conscious.
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