If people start to buy the idea that machines are great companions for the elderly or for children, as they increasingly seem to do, we are really playing with fire.
Sherry TurkleRead
We think constant connection will make us feel less lonely. The opposite is true.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Being constantly connected does not necessarily reduce feelings of loneliness; rather, it can increase them.
In this quote, Sherry Turkle highlights the paradox of modern communication technology. Despite the convenience and semblance of connection offered by digital platforms, they can lead to a greater sense of isolation rather than alleviate loneliness. Turkle suggests that true connection requires deeper engagement than superficial online interactions.
Themes
LonelinessConnectionTechnologyRelationshipsIsolation
In practice
Example use cases
A speaker at a mental health seminar discussing the effects of social media on emotional well-being.
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The feeling that 'no one is listening to me' make us want to spend time with machines that seem to care about us.
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