If people start to buy the idea that machines are great companions for the elderly or for children, as they increasingly seem to do, we are really playing with fire.
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We think constant connection will make us feel less lonely. The opposite is true.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Being constantly connected does not necessarily reduce feelings of loneliness; rather, it can increase them.
In this quote, Sherry Turkle highlights the paradox of modern communication technology. Despite the convenience and semblance of connection offered by digital platforms, they can lead to a greater sense of isolation rather than alleviate loneliness. Turkle suggests that true connection requires deeper engagement than superficial online interactions.
Themes
LonelinessConnectionTechnologyRelationshipsIsolation
In practice
Example use cases
A speaker at a mental health seminar discussing the effects of social media on emotional well-being.
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