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Emphasizing effort gives a child a variable that they can control. They come to see themselves as in control of their success. Emphasizing natural intelligence takes it out of the child's control, and it provides no good recipe for responding to a failure.
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Focusing on effort empowers children to feel in control of their success, while valuing intelligence can lead to a helpless mindset in the face of failure.
This quote by Carol S. Dweck highlights the importance of fostering a growth mindset in children by emphasizing effort over innate intelligence. When children learn that effort leads to success, they feel empowered and in control of their outcomes, which helps them to cope with setbacks. In contrast, when they believe that success is solely dependent on natural intelligence, they may feel helpless when faced with challenges, as they believe those are beyond their control.
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During a parent-teacher conference, a teacher explains the importance of praising students for their efforts rather than their intelligence.
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