Emotions are continually affecting our thought processes and decisions, below the level of our awareness. And the most common emotion of them all is the desire for pleasure and the avoidance of pain.
Interpretation
Emotions subconsciously influence our thoughts and choices, primarily driven by the pursuit of pleasure and the avoidance of pain.
This quote by Robert Greene highlights the powerful role of emotions in shaping our thinking and decision-making processes, often without us even realizing it. It suggests that most of our actions are motivated by a fundamental desire to seek pleasure and to avoid discomfort, emphasizing the subconscious nature of these emotional influences on our lives.
In practice
In a discussion about mental health, one might say, 'As Robert Greene points out, our emotions guide our decisions at a subconscious level.'
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I can't help it when people are frightened," says Merricat. "I always want to frighten them more.
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