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Your failures and misfortunes don't threaten other people. . .It's your assets and your successes that are problems for people who derive their self-esteem from being superior.
Carol S. Dweck
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Your successes can intimidate others who base their self-worth on being better than you.

This quote highlights the perspective that while personal failures may not affect others, your achievements can make them feel inferior. It suggests that for some individuals, self-esteem is built on a notion of superiority over others, which can lead to discomfort or resentment towards those who achieve success.

Themes

SuccessSelf-EsteemSuperiorityFailuresMisfortunes

In practice

Example use cases

In a motivational speech to encourage others to embrace their success.

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