You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Elizabeth GilbertRead
Then again, you cannot stop the flood of desire as it moves through the world, inappropriate though it may sometimes be. It is the prerogative of all humans to make ludicrous choices, to fall in love with the most unlikely of partners, and to set themselves up for the most predicatable of calamities.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that humans will always pursue desires, even if they lead to chaos or unexpected outcomes.
In this quote, Elizabeth Gilbert highlights the inevitability of human desire and the often irrational choices that accompany it. It acknowledges that despite the potential for ludicrous outcomes and predictable failures, the freedom to love and desire unconditionally is a fundamental aspect of being human. The message underlines the complexity of relationships and the beauty of embracing vulnerability, regardless of the possible consequences.
Themes
DesireLoveChoicesHumannatureRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding speech, one might use this quote to celebrate love's unpredictability.
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