You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
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I was full of a hot, powerful sadness and would have loved to burst into the comfort of tears, but tried hard not to, remembering something my Guru once said -- that you should never give yourself a chance to fall apart because, when you do, it becomes a tendency and it happens over and over again. You must practice staying strong, instead.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of resilience and maintaining strength in the face of emotional turmoil.
In this quote, Elizabeth Gilbert reflects on a moment of deep sadness and the internal struggle between wanting to express that pain and the wisdom imparted by her Guru about the dangers of allowing oneself to succumb to overwhelming emotions. The advice suggests that developing the habit of staying strong is crucial, as giving in to sadness can create a pattern that leads to recurring emotional breakdowns. Instead of allowing oneself to fall apart, one should practice strength and resilience as a way to navigate life's challenges.
Themes
ResilienceStrengthEmotionsSadnessWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
When giving a motivational speech about overcoming challenges.
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