You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Elizabeth GilbertRead
To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow - this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.
Interpretation
True love involves being deeply understood and accepted for who we are.
In this quote, Elizabeth Gilbert emphasizes the extraordinary nature of being truly seen and accepted by someone else. It suggests that the ability to love and accept someone despite their flaws and complexities is a profound and rare gift in human relationships, highlighting the importance of vulnerability and authenticity in love.
In practice
Using this quote at a wedding to illustrate the depth of love between partners.
You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
I had always been taught that the pursuit of happiness was my natural (even national) birthright. It is the emotional trademark of my culture to seek happiness. Not just any kind of happiness, either, but profound happiness, even soaring happiness. And what could possibly bring a person more soaring happiness than romantic love.
When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
And when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt - this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.
But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilling yearnings.
Where do you draw the line, between love and greed? We never did know, we always wanted more. We want to take it all in, for one last time, we want to eat the world with our eyes.
Must being in love always mean being in pain?
A love for tradition has never weakened a nation, indeed it has strengthened nations in their hour of peril.
To love beauty is to see light.
Let this be my last word, that I trust in thy love.
Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. But rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person, how beautiful it will be when the right person comes along.
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