It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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The good parent: someone who doesn't mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
Interpretation
What this quote means
A good parent may face temporary dislike from their children in order to prioritize their well-being.
In this quote, Alain De Botton highlights the complex nature of parenting, suggesting that a true good parent is willing to endure their children's anger or resentment if it means making decisions that ultimately serve their best interests. This reflects the idea that the responsibilities of parenthood often require making tough choices that may not be immediately appreciated by children but are necessary for their growth and development.
Themes
ParentingChildrenLoveSacrificeWell-Being
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a parenting workshop to emphasize the importance of making tough decisions for children's benefit.
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