Don't we forgive everything of a lover? We forgive selfishness, desire, guile. As long as we are the motive for it...There are some European words you can never translate properly into another language.
A man in a desert can hold absence in his cupped hands knowing it is something more than water. There is a plant whose heart, if one cuts it out is replaced with fluid containing herbal goodness. Every morning one can drink the liquid amount of the missing heart.
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What this quote means
The quote reflects the idea that absence can have value and that what is lost can still provide nourishment and sustenance in unexpected ways.
This quote by Michael Ondaatje explores the profound relationship between absence and presence, highlighting that even in scarcity, there is potential for richness. The imagery of a man in a desert illustrates a stark reality where one learns to appreciate what is not overtly present, suggesting that absence can symbolize deeper meaning and emotional nourishment. It also alludes to the resilience of nature, represented by the healing properties of the plant, emphasizing the idea that even from loss, one can find sustenance and growth.
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Example use cases
This quote can be used to inspire someone who is going through a tough time, reminding them that their losses can lead to personal growth.
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Water is the exile, carried back in cans and flasks, the ghost between your hands and your mouth.
You must talk to me, Caravaggio. Or am I just a book? Something to be read, some creature to be tempted out of a loch and shot full of morphine, full of corridors, lies, loose vegetation, pockets of stones.
You don't want to write your own opinion, you don't want to just represent yourself, but represent yourself through someone else.
A man in a desert can hold absence in his cupped hands, knowing it is something that feeds him more than water.
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