When you choose to connect with others under stress, you can create resilience.
Kelly McgonigalRead
Chasing meaning is better for your health than trying to avoid discomfort.
Interpretation
Finding purpose can lead to better well-being compared to avoiding challenges.
The quote by Kelly McGonigal underscores the importance of pursuing meaningful experiences and challenges in life, suggesting that actively engaging with discomfort can lead to personal growth and improved mental health, rather than simply seeking to evade difficult situations. It implies that a focus on meaning fosters a healthier, more fulfilling life through resilience and connection to our values.
In practice
In a motivational speech about embracing life's challenges, one could use this quote to inspire others.
When you choose to connect with others under stress, you can create resilience.
Self-compassion - being supportive and kind to yourself, especially in the face of stress and failure - is associated with more motivation and better self-control.
We all have the tendency to believe self-doubt and self-criticism, but listening to this voice never gets us closer to our goals. Instead, try on the point of view of a mentor or good friend who believes in you, wants the best for your, and will encourage you when you feel discouraged.
My favorite definition of the mindful path is the one the reveals itself as you walk down it. You cannot find the path until you step on to it.
I always say that when I see that needle start to go in the other direction, when people have had enough of me, I'm going to be smart enough to say goodbye. It's such a joyous ride to be on top, and it takes away from that ride if you sort of ride it down.
When I start on a book, I have been thinking about it and making occasional notes for some time... So I have lots of theme, locale, subjects and technical ideas... I don't worry about long periods of not doing anything. I know my subconscious is busy.
I have a lot of what you might call creative self-loathing - I have pretty high expectations, and they seem to consistently be higher than what I'm able to accomplish.
Genius is simply patience carried to the extreme.
The master in the art of living makes little distinction between his work and his play, his labor and his leisure, his mind and his body, his information and his recreation, his love and his religion. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence at whatever he does, leaving others to decide whether he is working or playing. To him he's always doing both.
Youth eats all the sugared fancy cakes and regards them as its daily bread. But there'll come a time when you'll start asking just for a crust.
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