When you choose to connect with others under stress, you can create resilience.
Kelly McgonigalRead
Chasing meaning is better for your health than trying to avoid discomfort.
Interpretation
Finding purpose can lead to better well-being compared to avoiding challenges.
The quote by Kelly McGonigal underscores the importance of pursuing meaningful experiences and challenges in life, suggesting that actively engaging with discomfort can lead to personal growth and improved mental health, rather than simply seeking to evade difficult situations. It implies that a focus on meaning fosters a healthier, more fulfilling life through resilience and connection to our values.
In practice
In a motivational speech about embracing life's challenges, one could use this quote to inspire others.
When you choose to connect with others under stress, you can create resilience.
Self-compassion - being supportive and kind to yourself, especially in the face of stress and failure - is associated with more motivation and better self-control.
We all have the tendency to believe self-doubt and self-criticism, but listening to this voice never gets us closer to our goals. Instead, try on the point of view of a mentor or good friend who believes in you, wants the best for your, and will encourage you when you feel discouraged.
My favorite definition of the mindful path is the one the reveals itself as you walk down it. You cannot find the path until you step on to it.
I am, as I've said, merely competent. But in an age of incompetence, that makes me extraordinary.
Take the dead from the dead, the old proverb said; only a corpse may speak true prophecy.
...I came to realize that God never shows us something we aren't ready to understand. Instead, He lets us see what we need to see, when we need to see it. He'll wait until our eyes and hearts are open to Him, and then when we're ready. He will plant our feet on the path that's best for us. . . but it's up to us to do the walking.
Curiosity is, in great and generous minds, the first passion and the last.
The master was an old Turtle--we used to call him Tortoise--' Why did you call him Tortoise, if he wasn't one?' Alice asked. We called him Tortoise because he taught us,' said the Mock Turtle angrily; 'really you are very dull!' You ought to be ashamed of yourself for asking such a simple question,' added the Gryphon; and then they both sat silent and looked at poor Alice, who felt ready to sink into the earth.
Nothing has been purchased more dearly than the little bit of reason and sense of freedom which now constitutes our pride.
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