Any group of persons – prisoners, primitives, pilots, or patients – develop a life of their own that becomes meaningful, reasonable and normal once you get close to it.
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A performer may be taken in by his own act, convinced at the moment that the impression of reality which he fosters is the one and only reality. In such cases we have a sense in which the performer comes to be his own audience; he comes to be performer and observer of the same show. Presumably he introcepts or incorporates the standards he attempts to maintain in the presence of others so that even in their absence his conscience requires him to act in a socially proper way.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote explores how individuals can become immersed in their own roles, blurring the lines between performance and reality.
In this quote, Erving Goffman discusses the concept of self-presentation and how individuals, particularly performers, can become so engrossed in their roles that they begin to believe in the reality they create. This phenomenon leads to a duality where the performer becomes both the one who acts and the one who observes, internalizing social standards and expectations to maintain a socially acceptable persona, even when no one is watching.
Themes
PerformanceRealitySelf-PresentationSocial StandardsIdentity
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about the impact of social media on self-identity, this quote can highlight how users curate their online personas.
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