You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
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To feel physically comfortable with someone else's body is not a decision you make. It has very little thing to do with how two people think or act or talk or even look. The mysterious magnet is either there, buried somewhere deep behind the sternum, or it is not.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Physical comfort with another person is instinctive and not a conscious choice.
In this quote, Elizabeth Gilbert suggests that the feeling of physical comfort or attraction to another person's body is not something that can be controlled or decided upon. It is an instinctual connection that exists beyond mutual actions, thoughts, or appearances, indicating a deeper, often unexplainable bond that lies within individuals.
Themes
LoveAttractionConnectionRelationshipsInstinct
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about the nature of love and attraction during a relationship seminar.
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