Our spirits are corroded by living in an atmosphere of unrelenting contention - an argument culture.
Interpretation
Constant argumentation can negatively affect our spirits and well-being.
Deborah Tannen highlights how an environment filled with continuous conflict and contention can diminish our inner peace and vitality. Living in such a culture not only breeds stress but also deteriorates our ability to engage constructively with others, ultimately corroding our spirits.
In practice
In a speech on workplace dynamics, one might use this quote to highlight the detrimental effects of constant arguments.
Women as mothers grapple with corresponding contradictions. The adoration they feel for their grown daughters, mixed with the sense of responsibility for their well-being, can be overwhelming, matched only by the hurt they feel when their attempts to help or just stay connected are rebuffed or even excoriated as criticism or devilish interference.
Sister relationships span a huge range, from best friends to worst enemies. From 'I adore her; I talk to her five times a day' to 'I decided to cut her out of my life.' For most women, it's in between.
The trickiest thing about the double bind is that it operates imperceptibly, like shots from a gun with a silencer.
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Mothers and daughters find in each other the source of great comfort but also of great pain. We talk to each other in better and worse ways than we talk to anyone else.
Treating people the same is not equal treatment if they are not the same.
...it was always our view that in order to attain this [proletarian revolution] and the other far more important aims of the future social revolution, the working class must first take possession of the organised political power of the state and by its aid crush the resistance of the capitalist class and organise society anew.
After all, we did not invent symbolism; it is a universal age-old activity of the human imagination.
Penal law was not created by the common people, nor by the peasantry, nor by the proletariat, but entirely by the bourgeoisie as an important tactical weapon in this system of divisions which they wished to introduce.
The collection of taxes which are not absolutely required, which do not beyond reasonable doubt contribute to public welfare, is only a species of legalized larceny. Under this Republic the rewards of industry belong to those who earn them.
To those who does not know the world is on fire, I have nothing to say.
Life, and you, and I, and all of us together became for a while interesing to ourselves once more.
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