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Things are simply the way they are. They don't give us suffering. Like a thorn: Does a sharp thorn give us suffering? No. It's simply a thorn. It doesn't give suffering to anybody. If _x000D_ we step on it, we suffer immediately. _x000D_ Why do we suffer? Because we _x000D_ stepped on it. So the suffering comes from us.
Ajahn Chah
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Suffering originates from our reactions to experiences, not from the experiences themselves.

This quote by Ajahn Chah emphasizes that suffering is not an inherent quality of the situations we encounter, but rather a result of our responses to them. Just as a thorn does not cause suffering on its own, our pain arises from our actions or decisions, reminding us that we have the power to change our perspective on difficulties.

Themes

SufferingResponsePerspectiveThornControl

In practice

Example use cases

During a mindfulness workshop, to teach participants about the nature of suffering.

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