You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Elizabeth GilbertRead
Tis' better to live your own life imperfectly than to imitate someone else's perfectly.
Interpretation
It's more valuable to live authentically, even with flaws, than to perfectly mimic others.
This quote emphasizes the importance of authenticity over imitation. It suggests that living one's own life, even if it is imperfect, is far more fulfilling and valuable than trying to copy the idealized life of another person. The pursuit of one's unique path, with all its imperfections, leads to genuine happiness and self-discovery, whereas imitation can stifle individuality and personal growth.
In practice
In a motivational speech about self-acceptance and living authentically.
You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
I had always been taught that the pursuit of happiness was my natural (even national) birthright. It is the emotional trademark of my culture to seek happiness. Not just any kind of happiness, either, but profound happiness, even soaring happiness. And what could possibly bring a person more soaring happiness than romantic love.
When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
And when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt - this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.
But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilling yearnings.
What a country calls its vital economic interests are not the things which enable its citizens to live, but the things which enable it to make war. Petrol is more likely than wheat to be a cause of international conflict.
I can't even enjoy a blade of grass unless I know there's a subway handy, or a record store or some other sign that people do not totally regret life. It's more important to confirm the least sincere. The clouds get enough attention as it is.
The only religion that ought to be taught is the religion of fearlessness. Either in this world or in the world of religion, it is true that fear is the sure cause of degradation and sin. It is fear that brings misery, fear that brings death, fear that breeds evil. And what causes fear? Ignorance of our own nature.
Everyone is a prisoner of his own experiences. No one can eliminate prejudices - just recognize them.
The faintest gleam of their lost memories glimmered for the briefest moment in their hearts.
The most agonising thing is to drop doubt into a man about his being a reality, three-dimensional - and not some other kind of reality.
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