You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Elizabeth GilbertRead
Travel is similar to therapy. You can go to the best psychologist in the world for ten years. If you don't feel like actively shifting anything in your life, there is nothing that person can do to change you.
Interpretation
Travel can catalyze personal transformation, much like therapy, but it requires a willingness to change.
In this quote, Elizabeth Gilbert emphasizes that while therapy can provide valuable insights and guidance, real change ultimately comes from within. Just like a journey through travel can offer new perspectives and experiences, one must actively desire to make shifts in their life in order for either travel or therapy to have a significant impact.
In practice
This quote can inspire someone before going on a transformative trip.
You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
I had always been taught that the pursuit of happiness was my natural (even national) birthright. It is the emotional trademark of my culture to seek happiness. Not just any kind of happiness, either, but profound happiness, even soaring happiness. And what could possibly bring a person more soaring happiness than romantic love.
When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
And when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt - this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.
But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilling yearnings.
I hope one day people don't look at women like they're out of their minds when they want to pick up an instrument and play. And I think we're getting a lot closer to that.
Those who can't imagine change reveal the deficits of their imaginations, not the difficulty of change.
This is the moment of your defeat; you have just put in the last nails in the coffin of communism.
Black women rock the cradle, and whoever rocks the cradle rocks the future.
Many times in life, we say we want change but are then terrified when the opportunity for it arrives.
Somewhere inside all of us is the power to change the world.
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