I'm sad to report that in the past few years, ever since uncertainty became our insistent 21st century companion, leadership has taken a great leap backwards to the familiar territory of command and control.
Margaret J. WheatleyRead
Without aggression, it becomes possible to think well, to be curious about differences, and to enjoy each other's company.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of reducing aggression to foster understanding and enjoyment in relationships.
Margaret J. Wheatley's quote highlights that when aggression is absent, individuals are able to think clearly, embrace curiosity about others' perspectives, and truly appreciate time spent together. This idea suggests that peaceful interactions lead to more meaningful connections, allowing for a richer and more harmonious social experience.
In practice
In a team-building workshop focused on collaboration.
I'm sad to report that in the past few years, ever since uncertainty became our insistent 21st century companion, leadership has taken a great leap backwards to the familiar territory of command and control.
In our daily life, we encounter people who are angry, deceitful, intent only on satisfying their own needs. There is so much anger, distrust, greed, and pettiness that we are losing our capacity to work well together.
Even though worker capacity and motivation are destroyed when leaders choose power over productivity, it appears that bosses would rather be in control than have the organization work well.
Our willingness to acknowledge that we only see half the picture creates the conditions that make us more attractive to others. The more sincerely we acknowledge our need for their different insights and perspectives, the more they will be magnetized to join us.
They have eliminated rigidity, both physical and psychological, in order to support more fluid processes whereby temporary teams are created to deal with specific and ever-changing needs. They have simplified roles into minimal categories; they have knocked down walls and created workplaces where people, ideas, and information circulate freely.
It's not differences that divide us. It's our judgments about each other that do.
After divorce of Pompeia in 62 BC I feel that members of my family should never be suspected of breaking the law. -Meos tam suspicione quam crimine iudico carere oportere
...it is not the big events that hurt the most but rather the smallest questionable shift in tone at the end of a spoken word that can plow most deeply into the heart.
I think that everyone should get married at least once, so you can see what a silly, outdated institution it is.
An archaeologist is the best husband a woman can have. The older she gets the more interested he is in her.
In all legends men have thought of women as sublime separately but horrible in a herd.
Relationships matter: the currency for systemic change was trust, and trust comes through forming healthy working relationships. People, not programs, change people.
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