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Praise your child explicitly for how capable they are of learning rather than telling them how smart they are.
Carol S. Dweck
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Focus on a child's ability to learn rather than labeling them as 'smart'.

This quote emphasizes the importance of encouraging children by praising their effort and capacity to learn instead of simply labeling them as 'smart'. This approach nurtures a growth mindset, helping children to understand that their abilities can be developed through dedication and hard work, which fosters resilience and a love for learning.

Themes

LearningPraiseGrowth MindsetEducationChildren

In practice

Example use cases

During a parent-teacher conference to discuss a child's progress.

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