Just because some people can do something with little or no training, it doesn't mean that others can't do it (and sometimes do it even better) with training.
Carol S. DweckRead
Praise your child explicitly for how capable they are of learning rather than telling them how smart they are.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Focus on a child's ability to learn rather than labeling them as 'smart'.
This quote emphasizes the importance of encouraging children by praising their effort and capacity to learn instead of simply labeling them as 'smart'. This approach nurtures a growth mindset, helping children to understand that their abilities can be developed through dedication and hard work, which fosters resilience and a love for learning.
Themes
LearningPraiseGrowth MindsetEducationChildren
In practice
Example use cases
During a parent-teacher conference to discuss a child's progress.
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