You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Elizabeth GilbertRead
Fear can have a voice, but it doesn't get a vote.
Interpretation
Fear may speak to us, but it shouldn't determine our choices.
This quote by Elizabeth Gilbert emphasizes the idea that while fear may express itself and influence our thoughts, it ultimately should not dictate our decisions or actions. It encourages individuals to recognize their fears without allowing those fears to control their lives, suggesting that we have the power to choose how we respond to our fears.
In practice
In a motivational speech about overcoming challenges, you might say, 'Remember, fear can have a voice, but it doesn't get a vote.'
You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
I had always been taught that the pursuit of happiness was my natural (even national) birthright. It is the emotional trademark of my culture to seek happiness. Not just any kind of happiness, either, but profound happiness, even soaring happiness. And what could possibly bring a person more soaring happiness than romantic love.
When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
And when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt - this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.
But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilling yearnings.
Free labor has the inspiration of hope; pure slavery has no hope.
Ah! never shall the land forget How gushed the life-blood of her brave -
I spent five years of my life being treated for cancer, but since then I've spent fifteen years being treated for nothing other than looking different from everyone else. It was the pain from that, from feeling ugly, that I always viewed as the great tragedy of my life. The fact that I had cancer seemed minor in comparison.
All I know is that after 10 years of being sober, with huge support to express my pain and anger and shadow, the grief and tears didnβt wash me away. They gave me my life back! They cleansed me, baptized me, hydrated the earth at my feet. They brought me home, to me, to the truth of me.
Young men go to war. Sometimes because they have to, sometimes because they want to. Always, they feel they are supposed to. This comes from the sad, layered stories of life, which over the centuries have seen courage confused with picking up arms, and cowardice confused with laying them down.
A true knight is fuller of bravery in the midst, than in the beginning of danger.
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