Labeling and diagnosis is a catastrophic way to communicate. Telling other people what's wrong with them greatly reduces, almost to zero, the probability that we're going to get what we're after.
Marshall B. RosenbergRead
Before we tackle the gangs and the basic story, we have to make sure that we have liberated ourselves from how we have been educated and make sure we are coming from a spirituality of our own choosing.
Interpretation
True liberation requires a personal understanding of spirituality beyond traditional education.
Marshall B. Rosenberg emphasizes the importance of self-liberation from conventional educational constraints, suggesting that one must develop their own spiritual beliefs and understandings before confronting external issues like societal challenges or gangs. This calls for a deep introspection and personal growth that transcends mere academic learning.
In practice
A motivational speaker could use this quote to encourage individuals to seek their own path in life rather than conforming to societal expectations.
Labeling and diagnosis is a catastrophic way to communicate. Telling other people what's wrong with them greatly reduces, almost to zero, the probability that we're going to get what we're after.
Whether I praise or criticize someone's action, I imply that I am their judge, that I'm engaged in rating them or what they have done.
In nonviolent communication, no matter what words others may use to express themselves, we simply listen for their observations, feelings, needs, and requests. Then we may wish to reflect back, paraphrasing what we have understood. We stay with empathy, allowing others the opportunity to fully express themselves before we turn our attention to solutions or requests for relief.
All that has been integrated into NVC has been known for centuries about consciousness, language, communication skills, and use of power that enable us to maintain a perspective of empathy for ourselves and others, even under trying conditions.
The punitive use of force tends to generate hostility and to reinforce resistance to the very behavior we are seeking.
Expressing our vulnerability can help resolve conflicts.
When wealth is centralized, the people are dispersed. When wealth is distributed, the people are brought together.
We must kill the false woman who is preventing the live one from breathing.
Nothing has a greater tendency to lessen the reverence which mankind ought to have for the Supreme Being, than a careless repetition of his name upon every trifling occasion . . . . To prevent this profanation, such passages are selected from scripture, as contain some important precepts of morality and religion, in which that sacred name is seldom mentioned. Let sacred things be appropriated to sacred purposes.
The great nations have always acted like gangsters, and the small nations like prostitutes.
All the old forms of discrimination, the forms of discrimination we supposedly left behind, are now perfectly legal once you've been labeled a felon.
I'd rather be at the end of a dying tradition, which I admire, than at the beginning of a tradition which I deplore.
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