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One very common thing is that often very brilliant children stop working because they're praised so often that it's what they want to live as - brilliant - not as someone who ever makes mistakes. It really stunts their motivation.
Carol S. Dweck
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What this quote means

Excessive praise can hinder children's motivation to learn from their mistakes.

In this quote, Carol S. Dweck highlights the danger of over-praising children for their brilliance, suggesting that it can lead them to prioritize their image as 'brilliant' over the value of learning and growing from challenges. This focus on perfection can inhibit their willingness to take risks or put forth effort, ultimately stunting their personal and academic development.

Themes

PraiseMotivationMistakesLearningDevelopmentChildren

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Example use cases

In a talk about parenting techniques, one could mention Dweck's insights to encourage a focus on growth rather than perfection.

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Picture your brain forming new connections as you meet the challenge and learn. Keep on going.
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