When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.
Bren BrownRead
After doing this work or the past twelve years and watching scarcity ride roughshod over our families, organizations, and communities, I'd say the one thing we have in common is that we're sick of feeling afraid. we want to dare greatly. We're tired of the national conversation centering on "What should we fear" and "Who should we blame?" We all want to be brave.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes a collective desire to overcome fear and embrace bravery in the face of challenges.
BrenΓ© Brown reflects on the collective experiences of individuals and communities who have faced scarcity and fear over the years. She highlights a common yearning for courage and bravery, urging a shift in the national dialogue from fear and blame to embracing daring and positivity. This message resonates with the need for resilience and empowerment in overcoming hardships.
In practice
Using this quote in a motivational speech about overcoming adversity in a community meeting.
When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.
Perfectionism is a twenty-ton shield that we lug around thinking it will protect us when, in fact, it's the thing that's really preventing us from taking flight.
Social media has given us this idea that we should all have a posse of friends when in reality, if we have one or two really good friends, we are lucky.
What we know matters but who we are matters more.
Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are.
Vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity and change.
I was the guy who was constantly speaking out against the Vietnam War. I have no regrets about that.
It takes more courage to send men into battle than to fight the battle yourself.
There is nothing about which I am more anxious than my country, and for its sake I am willing to die ten deaths, if that be possible.
It is easy to be disgruntled if you are denied rights and freedoms to which you feel entitled. But if you are not coherent, if you cannot put into words what it is that displeases you and why it is unfair and should change, then you are dismissed as an unreasonable whiner. You may be lectured about perseverance and patience, life as a test, the need to accept the higher wisdom of others.
It is better to die than to preserve this life by incurring disgrace. The loss of life causes but a moment's grief, but disgrace brings grief every day of one's life.
There is nothing romantic about teargas. Or smoke bombs or rubber bullets or sound cannons.
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