When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.
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But I don't think it's as dangerous, scary, or terrifying as getting to the end of our lives and wondering, what if I would have shown up?
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of taking risks and being present in life to avoid regrets.
Brené Brown's quote reflects on the fear of inaction and the potential regrets of not fully engaging with our lives. It suggests that the fear of missing out on experiences is more frightening than the challenges we face when we choose to participate and show up in life. Brown encourages us to confront our fears and embrace the vulnerability that comes with being present, rather than letting the fear of failure or discomfort hold us back.
Themes
RegretVulnerabilityPresenceLifeCourage
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can inspire people during a commencement speech, encouraging graduates to embrace their future without fear.
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